Wedding Invitations

What is the difference between thank you notes and informals?
Thank you notes can be pre-printed with a generic “Thank You” message although it is always preferable to hand write a personal message. A pre-printed “Thank You” note can save you a lot of time and at least gives you a quick way to get something in the mail to let your guests know that you received their gift and to show a token appreciation for it. If you do go the pre-printed route, you really should follow up with a hand written “Informal note later on.

A “Thank You” should be sent at least within tow months of your wedding. The main difference between the “thank you” notes and “informals” is that the “Thank You” notes just say, “Thank You” on them and the “Informals” have your name or monogram imprinted on the front. It is personalized stationery which can display either just the bride’s married name or both the bride and grooms names, such as, Mr. and Mrs. …

You can be more informal if you prefer and have just the first names and then the last, such as “John and Mary Jones.” Technically the bride and groom should have their own personalized stationery, but most couples put their names together on the informals.

The important thing is that your guests have taken the time and expense of purchasing you a nice wedding gift and they deserve a hand written note thanking them for their thoughtfulness. Informals and thank yous can always be used for anytime you need to acknowledge receipt of a gift or service from anyone.