Wedding Invitations

Speaking at the shower, rehearsal dinner, bachelor or bachelorette party, and reception is an important way for wedding participants to share their feelings about the bride and groom, as well as to introduce both poignant and humorous anecdotes about them to the other guests. Many people speak publicly at the rehearsal dinner, wedding ceremony, and reception. This chapter speaks to the most anyone who plans to share words about the happy couple—including parents, friends, wedding party members, and others. The bride and groom also give toasts to their parents, extended family, friends, and often each other.

Writing your own vows to exchange during the wedding ceremony is a meaningful way to personalize your love for one another in the presence of family and friends. Your vows are also a public testimony of your commitment to one another.