Wedding Invitations

Where in the world to have the wedding and reception can be a huge dilemma.

If you’re lucky, both families live close. But what if her family are in Wisconsin and his are in Oregon? Even worse, what if her family is in the UK and his are in the US? Where are you are going to have the ceremony? The last thing you want is to insult family members and friends.

Do you make his family travel far or her family? Do you make both families travel?
Who’s family would it be easier for? How many people would it “put out”? What’s the most convenient for the bride and groom? What’s the budget? Who’s paying for the wedding? Her family? His family? Which family is the most understanding? How will your family react to traveling? Every situation is a little different and the resolution will depend on all these factors, plus some. 

Here are some ideas other people have done that may help. 

• Some people pay for their families to travel to the location.
• Have two wedding ceremonies and two receptions. One where she’s from and one where he’s from.
• Have the actual marriage take place in one area and then the reception at another.

All these can be quite costly but is a great alternative, especially if the family wants to help pay for it. Be creative!

Whatever you decide, it’s good wedding etiquette to send invites to friends and family even if you know they can’t make it. This way they don’t feel neglected.