Wedding Invitations

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Have you ever known (or had) a parent or future In-Laws that could not stop meddling during the wedding planning? Did you think “gosh, if they are like this now, what is it going to be like after the marriage?” OR…Are you the meddling parent or in-law?

There are different kinds and different degrees of meddlers. There’s the kind that make you feel like they have no faith in you and belittle you. Then there’s the kind who are just so stinkin’ excited, they can’t help but want to help. (Hopefully this is the kind they are.)

I’ve heard of situations where one set of parents were so controlling and meddling they made conditions that they would not financially help unless their son/daughter used the church, reception hall and even honeymooned where the parents chose. Not exactly good wedding etiquette.

Every situation is a little different and you’ll need to use your best judgment as both the engaged or the parent. Perhaps the below notes can help.

Note to the engaged:

Know that your parents love you and want you to be happy. They may not even realize they’re meddling. Keep the lines of communication open and always put yourself in their shoes before getting upset with them (so you don’t say anything you’ll regret). Be thankful for all they do.

Note to the Meddler:

It’s ok to help (and offer whenever possible), but know your boundaries. You want your child to have the opportunity to grow from this experience. If you feel you need to give them space, go with your gut feeling and remember to say “I Love You”.

You’re engaged, now what do you do?
Choosing your wedding party can be stressful, overwhelming, and even political. Should your future sister-in-law be a bridesmaid? Can a close male friend be in your wedding party? Do you have to include people in your wedding party who have included you in theirs, even if you are not very close to them anymore?

Think of selecting the members of your wedding party the way you would choose players for an all-star team. These are the people who mean the most to you and who can help you get through this exciting time with as few complications and stresses as possible. Tomorrow I will share some ideas for you on how to share this exciting news with your family as you begin your wedding planning.